Many people learn people-pleasing in childhood, especially if they grew up with adults that could be unpredictable or explosive.

A person that chameleons, is someone that is constantly adjusting and adapting themselves to “fit” into their current environment. 

People-Pleasers HATE being thought of as selfish and will avoid this perception at all costs.

When you say “I deserve” or “I don’t deserve” you are attaching something to your self-worth.